I've been thinking about this for a while but I'm in the belief that my most recent ex-boyfriend is a closet homosexual. I've already had one come out of the closet 2 years after we broke up and the more I think about it the more I really think he is a closet homosexual as well and it just burns me up that I wasted that time on something I thought was real and pure and it turned out that it never really had a chance to work. Really. I just want to move on with my life!Also. I gave some advice today about stay true to who you are and eventually people will start to like you for who you are. It took me many many years to find good friends but I have them now and I stayed true to myself (most of the time).
I hate to be the voice of reason but don't let his possible sexuality be something that burns you up. If it's who I'm thinking it is (it might not be) there were plenty of other reasons that it wouldn't work and you have reason to despise/dislike/whatever emotion you feel fits him. I can understand the feeling though but there are always other reasons that it might not have worked out. Maybe I'm a bit biased since I'm
The significant other might understand a little bit better than I would since his ex did leave him for another girl.
Michael then that's who I was referring to. There were loads of other issues. I agree but I just couldn't put this one to rest. The thing that eats me up more than anything is how that it makes me realize after his friend divorced his wife how pushed aside I was and if it was because he was in love with that friend then how little I meant to him after how much he meant to me. I can see how that could be more upsetting since at the time we did break up it was for another girl. The breakup was caused by
an intern at his work that I could clearly see meant more to him than I did but it's really just now I'm realizing how much more this friend of his meant than I ever seemed to and THAT just eats me up. I know I shouldn't let it do this to me but hopefully I can let it rest.
Yeah. I guess I didn't make the connection right then and there when I wrote this entry but it really is. I always try to be who I am but I've learned that I do have multiple personalties even thought I try not to. Each one of them is part of who I am but I think the one that's most true to me is the one I have when I'm talking to my friends. That's always encouraging thank you so much :D
Oh dear. If he really is one then he's just cheating both you and himself during the span of your relationship. Move on dearie! I'm certain you can find a better boyfriend who is straight :)Staying true to oneself is most important. Good friends are hard to find but hey once you do find them they're hard to let go :D
I'm REALLY trying so hard to move on but I don't want to do something stupid. I'd love to have another relationship but I really enjoy having time for me not to worry about someone else and all the people that I at one point thought would make a good person in a relationship have proven themselves wrong sadly enough. Yeah hopefully I can find one that's NOT a closet homosexual! I really need to get my gaydar fixed D:Oh yeah. I totally agree with that! I just hope that the person I told that to will find a good friend soon enough.
OUh if your [ex]Boyfriend is really homosexuall,then you've some bad luck with guys =x.. Maybe tell him what botheres you and when he ticks out,and is not able to talk with you normally,then try to relax him or sou. otherwise I dunno what to do. Sorry. I lack experience. And findin' REAL friends is not as simple as it seems,I am glad you find some.
Yeah it really seems that I do have pretty rotten luck with guys :O Well. I don't really talk to my ex-boyfriend anymore but I'm sure if I told him about this he'd go off on me and say that I was stupid (because he never hesitated to tell people they were stupid!)Thanks for your input tough! If my ex wasn't such a total douchebag. I would try to talk to him about this. Don't worry about experience though this kind of stuff SUCKS!Yeah it isn't but I have some of the best friends :D
Oh my gosh someone else going through the same thing! I honestly thought that it was just me being ignorant of who might be a homosexual and who isn't but when they are in the closet it is harder to figure out sometimes depending on how far they are in (I think my ex is finding some clothes from the 60's o. O) And being used as a cover blows ass! It makes me feel so cheated and everything. I hope things will get better for you with that situation ♥
Just because he *may* be a homosexual now doesn't mean that he didn't have some kind of feelings for you back then. Maybe he is now realizing that he likes guys more than girls. Either way at least you have a chance to find another. That is true. Being yourself will give you your true friends at least that is how I came to get mine. :)
This is very true. I know he had lots of feelings for me at first when his friend was busy with his wife but after they divorced it was almost like I didn't exist when Michael and his friend were together. I mean our very last conversation ended with "I have to go. Tommy is beeping in." and it was RIGHT in the middle of really ending everything. I do have a chance right now but I just haven't really found anyone that catches my attention as someone that would be good for me. Yeah that's how I seem to have gotten my friends too. :D
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